The other day I met up with some wedding clients to scout the location of their upcoming wedding. The bride to be asked me "Since you see all sorts of weddings, what are some things we should know?" Typically, I shy away from offering advice unless it pertains to photography. But I sure have seen some crazy things, and decided to offer a couple of points.
First, and most important - have contingency plans for everything. Identify the major components of your wedding day - ceremony location, flowers, band or DJ, photographer, etc. Then, establish a plan in the event something should happen. What if it looks like rain for your beach wedding? What if the DJ is in an accident en route to the wedding? These are, sadly, more common than you may think.
Second, rely on family and friends. Most people will enjoy supporting you on your wedding day. Don't feel bad about doling out chores (aka responsibility - brand it wisely). Have people be responsible for specific items - setting up the ceremony, follow up with the florist, make sure the DJ volume is OK all night, etc.
Last, have a good time. So much planning and stress goes into your wedding that it seems people forget to appreciate it. Take deep breaths, roll with whatever issues pop up and remember what the core of the day is really about - celebrating your love.
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